12 Suggestions for Starting a New Al-Anon Meeting
Can’t find a meeting in your neighborhood at a time that works for you? Start one!
Al-Anon is a “we” program—you don’t need to go it alone! Read through these suggestions and reach out to Intergroup if you need guidance.
Don’t worry if it takes a little while for the meeting to attract members. Just keep showing up and remember that any two members are an Al-Anon group.
Here’s a printable version of the “12 Suggestions” on this page.
Here’s a list of Al-Anon’s various service arms and how to contact them and send donations.
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Ask other fellows in program to join you in a committee and meet (virtually or in person) for short periods each week to discuss what needs to be accomplished and what tasks have already been completed. This is a great opportunity to practice the Al-Anon principles, such as making a group conscience. This is also a good time to voluntarily contribute to start-up meeting costs, such as literature, rent, and meeting supplies.
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Decide what type of meeting you want.. Will it be a speaker meeting? Will it be literature based? Will it have a focus, such as for beginners, parents, or adult children of alcoholics? Will it be a virtual meeting or in person? Hybrid?
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For in-person and hybrid meetings, find a venue that your group can afford. Look for places that host other 12 Step meetings such as churches, schools, hospitals, and community centers. It’s helpful if the venue has a place to store meeting items.
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Write the meeting script to ensure a consistent meeting structure. Look at the scripts of other meetings to get ideas and possibly borrow them. The Al-Anon opening and closing is on pages 10 and 18 in the Al-Anon /Alateen Service Manual.
And write a business meeting script to make the business chairperson’s service easier and to ensure a consistent business meeting structure.
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Choose what you will be reading at each meeting (the Twelve Steps, Traditions, Concepts, Al- Anon Preamble to the 12 Steps, etc.). They can be found in 12 Steps & More under the Resources header. You may need to print them out.
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Pick a group name. We suggest including the neighborhood name, day of the week, focus, or format in your group name. For example: Park Slope Serenity; Step into Saturday; The Three Legacies.
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Decide when you’ll meet: a day of the week and time; pick a start day.
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Add your meeting with Greater NYC Al-Anon Intergroup here. In New York City, most people learn about meetings from our meeting list.
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Registration with World Service means your meeting will have a voice at the World Service Conference.
In-Person Meetings
If your group will meet at a physical location, use this link.
Electronic Meetings
To register an electronic meeting, use this link.
You may register and electronic meeting as part of either:a) The GEA (Global Electronic Area), where it will be listed on the Al-Anon.org GEA meeting database, which is seen by people from around the country and around the world; or
b) The New York South Assembly Area, in which case it will be listed on the Al-Anon.org location-based meeting database. For more information on registering an electronic meeting locally, see page 39 of the NYSA Area Guidelines.
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Send a flier with your start day via our Submit an Event form and ask to be included in the “Al-Anon Related Announcements” which are read at many New York meetings. Ask members to announce it at other meetings and print flyers to hand out at in person meetings.
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For in-person meetings we suggest getting a binder, plastic sleeves to hold the materials you will read and pass around, a notebook for the business meeting minutes, a bookkeeping ledger to track treasury, a plastic envelope to collect voluntary contributions and another to hold the meeting’s accumulating treasury, paper envelopes to pay rent to the venue, a plastic file box to hold literature and other meeting items, including pens.
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For in-person meetings order literature for the meeting. We suggest having copies of the Welcome Newcomer pamphlet , How Al-Anon Works (B-32), the three readers: Courage to Change (B-16), Hope for Today (B-27), One Day at a Time in Al-anon (B-6) and some popular bookmarks. These can be ordered from NYC Intergroup’s Literature Store. Also popular are Paths to Recovery (B-24), Reaching for Personal Freedom(P-92) and Blueprint for Progress (P-91).
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Al-Anon’s World Service Office publishes a series of Guidelines on many Al-Anon topics. Here’s the “Guideline for Starting a New Al-Anon Group..”